Joy

Around this time of year, as we enter the Christmas season, we see and hear the word ‘Joy’ more often than normal. We see it in Christmas decorations, and we hear songs like ‘Joy to the world.’ It is so common that we don’t think much about joy’s true meaning, and how we can obtain it. Let’s do some research, so we won’t miss out on Joy this Christmas.

The word Joy, when used as a noun, means ‘a feeling of great pleasure and happiness’. When Joy is used as a verb, it means ‘rejoice’. Joyful means ‘feeling, expressing, or causing great pleasure and happiness.’

Joy is wonderful. It isn’t hard to see how much it is needed in the world today. There is too much misery, depression, stress, worry, anxiety, prejudice and hate. We can all use some joy, so how can we obtain it? The world says we can obtain joy by having a successful career, money, a big house, a fancy car, going on lavish vacations, and having a lot of social media friends and likes.

Let’s see what God says.

Joyful are people of integrity, who follow the instructions of the Lord. Joyful are those who obey his laws and search for him with all their hearts. They do not compromise with evil, and they walk only in his paths. You have charged us to keep your commandments carefully. Psalm 119:1-3 NLT

God says that we will obtain joy when we have integrity, follow His instructions, and do no evil. So there you have it. The formula for having joy is simple, but it is not always easy to do. We have to consistently work on it, and like anything else, the more we work on it the better we become at it.

Take the time to discuss joy with our children. Ask them how we can obtain joy, and listen to how they respond. Then read the above scripture, and discuss what God says about obtaining true joy.

Posted in Parenting Toward the 30%.
Ken Leaman

Ken Leaman

Ken Leaman has a passion for students, and for over 25 years has been volunteering within churches, leading and mentoring students.  These churches are:

Ken has also serves on the board of another non-profit called DFW HDI, which is a membership organization of IT support professionals.  And Ken is the Director of Enterprise Data Management at IHS Markit, which is a multi-Billion global financial services and software company.

Ken, and his wife Karen, have been married for 26 years, and have a 25 year old son.  They live in McKinney, TX, just North of Dallas.

As Ken and Karen repeatedly witnessed many Christian students who were active within the Church walk away from their faith shortly after graduating high school, they grew frustrated.  Studies show that about 70% of young adults leave their faith after graduation, which is a huge issue since they are the future of the Church.  After much prayer and searching God's direction for many years, the Leaman's felt His calling to start a ministry to address this problem.  In 2014, they gathered like minded Christian professionals to help begin Young Adults of Worth Ministries.  We believe that this ministry is from God, and it will be blessed by Him for His glory alone.